Even the Hottest Guys can be UGLY

Take McDreamy for instance. Sometimes he is so cute, others he's Drop dead gorgeous. And then days like Yesterday that he was just plain ugly. And what I mean is, his attitude totally brought out an ugliness I saw physically in him. Just turned me off. And low and behold, this morning... He freaking surprises me and he's handsome again.

I was at the bar. Not too shabby of a guy sitting there. We get to talking, he quickly turns from Cute to Hideous is 2.7 seconds. All he had to do was open his mouth. He didn't have bad teeth, no that wasn't it. The obcenities comming from him were just unreal and totally unbelievable. I sat there for a minute trying to figure it out and just stopped. Excused myself and walked away.

Don't get me wrong, I can cuss up a storm worse than a sailor. It was the things that he was talking about, not cussing. And when I say obcenities, I mean his view of the world, his opinions on things made him a total turn off. Which, you know... Hey, we don't have the same wordly views and so you might as well just move on. Keep on moving on. My point is, he was cute and then because of the Personality, he wasn't anymore.

And you know, this goes in reverse as well. I have met some guys. Thinking to myself "He's not cute... he's average, ho-hum looking" ---Yes, I know I'm no prize myself, lol--- And then they come up to you and start talking. As the conversation goes on and gets more interesting you oddly find yourself attracted to this once was 'Ho-hum' guy that in the beginning you were thinking "Please don't let him come over here...NO, PLEASE tell me he's NOT sitting DOWN"....

Lesson is this: Attitude and Personality make all the difference in alot of things. Don't judge a book by its cover, Ladies and Gentlemen. Just because he/she may be a bit average looking and not the most drop dead beautiful person in the world, doesn't mean they are not beautiful.

Which would you rather have:

A Perfectly handsome/beautiful man/woman thats a bitch and nasty and has an ugly personality

or

That average looking person that may or may not be 'pretty' depending on your standards of 'pretty' but has an amazing personality.

And no, you usually can't have both. I know from experience... But hey, look at it this way, that average person with the awesome personality will become the most beautiful person in the world in your eyes. And in the end, isn't that the only thing that matters?

I thought you'd agree.